Mommy-ing I stopped giving a shit for a whole afternoon – and it was liberating!

I stopped giving a shit for a whole afternoon – and it was liberating!

Disclaimer:  I will be using a few cuss words in this post. I’m warning you… Hey loves. Hope you’ve been well. I keep hearing how moms lose their shit, and that this is normal. But when I look around me, however, I see perfectly calm moms who know exactly what they’re doing. Then I keep …

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Mommy-ing How we are coping with an unwanted visitor

How we are coping with an unwanted visitor

Hey! Hope you’ve been doing well this week. Courtnum and I are coping. After a very traumatic experience, we’ve decided to live at my parents’ home for a while. Let me tell you about it.

Mommy-ing I hope you read this one day

I hope you read this one day

My dear child, It’s 10 pm as I’m writing this. You’re fast asleep and I’m sitting in front of the TV flipping through your favourite channels. An overwhelming urge to write you this letter came over me. Not because I think something might happen to us. But we never know what the future holds. I …

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Mommy-ing Do I have what it takes to be a rugby-mum?

Do I have what it takes to be a rugby-mum?

Yes, actually I do. I have the skill to run up and down the sideline of the field, screaming at the players to “tackle hulle om!! and “pass die bal!!!”. I will make sure I’m at every game, organise trips for my son and his teammates etc and what the hell ever else rugby mums do. I …

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Mommy-ing Only my kisses

Only my kisses

“You know that your kisses are reserved only for me, right?” This is what I told my son after he told me about his first crush.  I know this line sounds a bit selfish, but I don’t want him to grow up too fast. Let me start at the beginning.

Mommy-ing Sex: an uncomfortable topic

Sex: an uncomfortable topic

Sex is an uncomfortable subject to discuss with your child. Even more so when you are a single mother of a son.

Mommy-ing Dear Mrs Right Way…

Dear Mrs Right Way…

Are single mothers still judged for being for being what they are? I was in Home Affairs recently, applying for a new ID. Not far from where was sitting, I noticed two women also waiting in the queue. One of them had a beautiful little girl on her lap.When the mother of the little girl …

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